What problems do old people need to pay attention to when they bring children at home?
With the development of the times, more and more young parents have to entrust their children's education and life with their grandparents and grandparents because of their busy work. More and more children become "left-behind children", and therefore "intergenerational education" has become a topic that we have to pay close attention to.
According to surveys, about 16.7% of the families in China are cared for and guarded by their grandparents, and the proportion in large cities is even higher. In Shanghai, 50%-60% of children aged 0-6 years are educated by their ancestors, and nearly half of all children in Guangzhou have received intergenerational education. In the face of this frustrating reality, we must "prevent the problem before it happens" so as to prevent the difference in the times from affecting the children's future development. The following four aspects require special attention from parents and ancestors.
First, feed: chase children to feed. Clinically found that children fed by grandparents are more prone to picky, partial eclipse and other bad habits. This may be because the old people are even more soft-hearted and charitable, so much so that they have crossed the border between "caring" and "beloved."
But in fact, because of their rich experience and patience, the elderly may better understand which foods are best for their children's growth and which things they like to eat. Therefore, it is best for parents to unite their thinking and understanding and discuss together. For the child to choose what food, how to cook, you can seek more advice from the elderly; and see the elderly have chased the child to feed, eat a meal reward a candy and other pet activities, the parents will promptly stop the old man to understand The bad behavior of letting children only harm them.
Second, discipline: too strict or too loose. Many elderly children tend to discipline the two extremes, either too strict or too loose. The former uses the “military management†of the past as a standard and likes to set a standard for anything. The latter sees that the child is foolhardy and soft, and everything depends on the child.
In fact, children also need respect and understanding, and they must have appropriate free space. Faced with this kind of problem, young parents must first correct their attitudes. No matter how busy they are, they must spend more time at home and do not give their children the right to education and custody to their parents. In addition, the two generations must negotiate and establish a workable relationship. The rules of the house, there are rules to follow the problem.
Third, early education: only teach children to read characters and study. Different eras have very different ideas for education. In the eyes of many old people, early education is nothing more than "intellectual development." Early learning teaches children to read and read books. In fact, the new point of view is that "the children who will play are the smartest." Parents are more important in developing the nature and speciality of children. Let the old people take a look at the books in this area. Together with their parents, they can lead young children to touch the real and colorful world and participate in outdoor sports. In the children's happy smiles, let the old people gradually accept the new education concept.
Fourth, security: Eyes and legs are not working to bring hidden dangers. Among the various contradictions in parental child care, security risks are the most deadly. Because of the age of the elderly, the elderly may not have enough eyesight, and not enough legs and feet, resulting in various security risks. In this regard, on the one hand, young parents should try their best to spend time with their children. When conditions permit, find a person who has the energy to ensure the safety of the child and escort the grandparents to look after the children. On the other hand, we must not dispel the enthusiasm and enthusiasm of the elderly, but we must work with them to find ways to minimize the hidden dangers. For example, homes are equipped with anti-collision angles, safety locks, and safe dining chairs to make it easier and more convenient for the elderly to take care of children.
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